‘I’m a 31-year-old woman and I have never orgasmed with a partner’Roe McDermott: 80% of women cannot orgasm from penetrative sex aloneSun Dec 29 2019 - 14:17
I found out my partner cheated years ago and I'm so angryAsk Roe: I chose to stay, and ever since we’ve been more honest. But I’m still angrySun Dec 22 2019 - 06:00
I just got married – but I’m still in love with my best friendAsk Roe: I wouldn’t cheat on my husband, but I can’t stop thinking about the friendSun Dec 15 2019 - 06:00
After a broken marriage, I’m scared to let the perfect man love meAsk Roe: I feel like I am asking so much of him to take on all the complications that come with my lifeSun Dec 08 2019 - 06:00
I want to stop my husband from trying impotence medicationAsk Roe: I prefer our new love life and I don’t want him to take the pillsSun Dec 01 2019 - 06:00
I do not like my boyfriend’s drug-using friendsAsk Roe: Nights out escalate from one glass of wine at a dinner party to lines of cocaineSun Nov 24 2019 - 06:00
I want to take sex slowly, but women assume I’m not interestedAsk Roe: The only way I feel comfortable and enjoy sex is if I know the personSun Nov 17 2019 - 06:00
My boyfriend enjoys hearing about my previous sexual encountersAsk Roe: At first I didn’t mind but now it feels disrespectful to my exesSun Nov 10 2019 - 06:00
My partner doesn’t last long in bed, and it’s killing meAsk Roe: I love him dearly, but he’s not very good when it comes to sexSun Nov 03 2019 - 06:00
My partner refuses to dress up sexily for me, and it’s ruining our relationshipAsk Roe: Am I asking too much in wishing for titillation as a prelude to sex?Sun Oct 27 2019 - 06:00
I’m a sexual deviant. How do I tell new partners?Ask Roe: I enjoy being dominated, but are these desires always going to be a problem?Sun Oct 20 2019 - 06:00
Since I had a baby, my cheating partner calls me fat and disgustingAsk Roe: I can’t stand to look in the mirror. My partner only makes it worseSun Oct 13 2019 - 06:00
Is it okay not to orgasm? Friends think I’m enduring bad sexAsk Roe: I have sex with my husband when I’m not turned on. Are they right?Sun Oct 06 2019 - 06:00
Guys don’t want to be in a relationship with me. What am I doing wrong?Ask Roe: I feel I’ll never find someone who will truly love me, who I will love backSun Sept 29 2019 - 06:00
I fell in love while living abroad and don’t think I’ll ever find that connection againAsk Roe: Now that I’m back in Ireland, this is the only thing that I can think aboutSun Sept 22 2019 - 06:00
‘He says my favourite kind of sex isn’t really his thing’Ask Roe: ‘Four months in to our relationship, my older partner has never given me oral sex’Sun Sept 15 2019 - 06:00
How can we keep sex fun while trying to conceive?Ask Roe: It’s hard to get in the mood when sex feels ‘scheduled’Sun Sept 08 2019 - 06:05
‘My husband says he never has to be affectionate because he shows his love in other ways’Ask Roe: He is not affectionate and never compliments me or says he loves me unpromptedSun Sept 01 2019 - 06:00
‘We rushed into marriage, are stuck in a rut and now I'm considering cheating’Ask Roe: A co-worker wants a one-night stand with me but I’m not so sure if I will do itSun Aug 25 2019 - 06:00
‘I’ve been having sex with a friend for a year, and I’ve started to have feelings’Ask Roe: He has a partner. I know I’m going to get hurt but I don’t know how to end itSun Aug 18 2019 - 06:00
My girlfriend sulks if we don’t have sex and it’s bringing back painful memoriesAsk Roe: My mother was narcissistic. My girlfriend doesn’t respect my boundaries, eitherFri Aug 09 2019 - 06:00
I’m 25, gay, single and insecure that all my straight friends are settling downAsk Roe: I have a lot to give someone but no idea where to find themSun Aug 04 2019 - 06:00
‘How do I leave my partner without feeling guilty?’Ask Roe: ‘He has been through addiction, depression and cancer and I find it so hard to leave’Sun Jul 28 2019 - 06:00
I don’t want to cheat on my boyfriend, but I fantasise about other menAsk Roe: The idea of excitement, being wanted, has me thinking what it’d be like to kiss someone elseSun Jul 21 2019 - 06:00
How long will it take me to get over my 10-year marriage?Ask Roe: I get sucked into chats on dating apps which lead to nothing and feel crushedSun Jul 14 2019 - 06:00
‘After 55 years together, my wife has left me. How do I get her back?’Ask Roe: To my mind I have not changed – for better or worse – but she hasSun Jul 07 2019 - 06:00
‘The man I’m cheating on my husband with won’t commit to me’Ask Roe: We’ve talked about being together but he’s reluctant to change his own lifeSun Jun 30 2019 - 06:00
‘I’m in love with my wife’s sister and want to tell her’Ask Roe: I know my wife would be devastated and I would end up losing a lotSun Jun 23 2019 - 06:00
‘What could be so wrong with me that no one has ever liked me?’Ask Roe: I’m always nice and cheerful and I’m great at my job, so why am I alone?Sat Jun 15 2019 - 06:00
‘I have a fear of rejection, but now I’m scared I’ll be alone forever’Ask Roe: Openness, vulnerability and compassion are the keys to everything you’re looking forSun Jun 09 2019 - 06:04
My partner acts quiet, awkward and disinterested in social situationsAsk Roe: He comes across as standoffish, which really hurts my feelingsSun Jun 02 2019 - 06:00
‘I worry I don’t last long enough in bed. I don’t feel like a complete man’Ask Roe: It’s sad that men judge their self-worth on unrealistic standardsSun May 26 2019 - 06:00
‘My boyfriend is well endowed, and it’s making sex painful’Ask Roe: ‘I think he’s hitting my cervix during sex. Is that possible?’Sun May 19 2019 - 06:00
‘My boyfriend has no friends and says I’m the only thing that makes him happy’Ask Roe: There’s a difference between appreciating you and being dependent on youSun May 12 2019 - 06:00
‘He said he loves me but he does not look forward to seeing me’Ask Roe: I believed he was my match and I am not sure how to glue my heart togetherSun May 05 2019 - 06:00
‘My boyfriend keeps naked photos of his ex-girlfriends on his phone’Ask Roe: ‘I hate that he could be looking at them while in a relationship with me’Sun Apr 28 2019 - 06:00
‘I want to leave my cheating girlfriend, but her mother just died’Ask Roe: She is begging me to stay, saying she needs me to get through her griefSun Apr 21 2019 - 06:00
‘I’m becoming controlling and aggressive in my relationship’Ask Roe: ‘I’m scared I’ll lose our connection but my behaviour is pushing them away’Sun Apr 14 2019 - 06:00
‘I’m dating an older man, but I think he just wants sex’Ask Roe: Remember 20-year-olds: That 30-year-old does not love you; they’re a creepSun Apr 07 2019 - 06:00
My boyfriend will not let me use a vibrator during sexAsk Roe: It’s the only way I can orgasm. I’ve never climaxed through penetrative sexSun Mar 31 2019 - 06:00
My girlfriend is always saying she is too sick to have sexDear Roe: We have had sex twice in six months, I can see myself getting frustratedSun Mar 24 2019 - 06:00
My husband wants to schedule sex but this goes against my idea of fun and consentDear Roe: We’re lucky if we have sex once a month but find his idea a bit weird and transactionarySun Mar 17 2019 - 07:00
‘My wife has not wanted sex for 10 years’Dear Roe: ‘My lovely wife has a tiny belly and never wants me to see her body’Sun Mar 10 2019 - 07:00
‘I’m worried that if I marry my boyfriend, I’ll miss being with someone smart’Ask Roe: ‘I usually know more than he does and he doesn’t challenge me like my exes did’Sun Mar 03 2019 - 07:00
‘I’m a 40-year-old woman. How do I tell a man I’m a virgin?’Ask Roe: Learning to trust yourself could be the key to developing the ability to trust othersSun Feb 24 2019 - 07:00
‘My husband likes to wear women’s underwear. Is it madness that I put up with it?’For the last 20 years he has been wearing women’s underwearSun Feb 17 2019 - 07:00
‘How do I stop obsessing over a woman who turned me down?’Ask Roe: Crushes can be fun, joyful things. But not when they become intrusiveSun Feb 10 2019 - 07:00
‘We’ve been married for 32 years but I found gay pornography on my husband’s phone’Dear Roe: Do I turn a blind eye to it for the sake of our kids or challenge him on it?Sun Feb 03 2019 - 07:00
‘My partner has a hateful secret online life’Dear Roe: He is spreading hate about women, immigrants and LGBT people. I am a bisexual woman of colourSun Jan 27 2019 - 00:00
My boyfriend is on a ‘sex strike’ . . . for the second timeDear Roe: He called his first strike after his annoyance at me for not being adventurousSun Jan 20 2019 - 00:00