My ex left me because he was bored. I thought we were comfortableAsk Roe: It floored me when he said ‘we were both stuck’ – not happy and committed as I thoughtSun Mar 20 2022 - 05:00
I’m happily married but jealous of my wife’s adventurous pastAsk Roe: You can’t change the past, but you can choose to enrich your present lifeSun Mar 13 2022 - 05:00
I told my boyfriend I was ready for an open relationship. It turns out I’m notAsk Roe: You are reacting differently than you expected. This isn’t deceptive. It’s humanSun Mar 06 2022 - 05:00
‘My new girlfriend won’t talk about her exes. I worry she still loves one of them’Ask Roe: ‘Surely if she was over them, they could be a causal conversation topic?’Sun Feb 27 2022 - 06:00
My husband has put on so much weight that I'm not attracted to him anymoreAsk Roe: Whether you stay in this relationship or leave, I urge you to stay focused and respectfulSun Feb 20 2022 - 06:00
‘After years of dating, I still can’t get a second date’Ask Roe: It’s a little embarrassing that people do not want to meet me againSun Feb 13 2022 - 06:00
‘I keep cheating on my boyfriends and I don’t know why’Ask Roe: ‘I really love my boyfriend but I have kissed three other guys so far’Sun Feb 06 2022 - 06:00
My partner prefers Asian and Latinx people. I’m white. Do we have a future?Ask Roe: Your partner’s porn tastes do not inherently mean he isn’t interested in youSun Jan 30 2022 - 06:00
I keep obsessing over people who are already in relationshipsAsk Roe: Your obsession makes sense. You’re scared of a new relationship, scared of the riskSun Jan 23 2022 - 06:00
I keep making my wife cry and I don’t know why, or how to helpIt’s been a long two years. Take some time to reconnect, and recommit to supporting each otherSun Jan 16 2022 - 06:00
My boyfriend loses his erection and I'm worried he's not attracted to meAsk Roe: ‘The body and mind can sometimes respond in ways that don’t match, it’s very common’Sun Jan 09 2022 - 06:00
‘My friend makes sexual jokes to me when we’re alone and I’m confused’‘It’s a kind of gross-out humour with the guys and it’s almost like dirty talk at this stage’Sun Jan 02 2022 - 06:00
My girlfriend isn’t verbal during sex – how do we navigate consent?Dear Roe: Some people need alternate frameworks of consent, and they shouldn’t be left unacknowledgedSun Dec 19 2021 - 00:00
My boyfriend’s high sex drive has disappeared. I feel it’s my faultAsk Roe: You are in no way obligated to have sex with your partner every time they wantSun Dec 12 2021 - 00:00
Should I wait for a man who isn’t ready for a relationship?‘You seem to have become attached to this emotionally unattainable man quite quickly’Sun Dec 05 2021 - 00:00
I keep trying to break up with my boyfriend but he won’t let meAsk Roe: ‘Since nothing has gone wrong he doesn’t understand why I’d want to end it’Sun Nov 28 2021 - 06:00
My best friend sexually propositioned me and I haven’t seen him sinceAsk Roe: He casually suggested we sleep together; now I feel uncomfortableSun Nov 21 2021 - 06:00
‘My husband has no sex drive anymore and I fear I will become resentful’Ask Roe: ‘I have tried every approach, including counselling, but it goes nowhere’Sun Nov 14 2021 - 06:00
I’m cheating and don’t want to give up either man. What should I do?Ask Roe: ‘I need both of them to function and love both deeply but differently’Sun Nov 07 2021 - 06:00
‘My partner is a good person but there is little laughter, excitement or enthusiasm’Ask Roe: 'He sucks the joy out of everything for me. What can I do?'Sat Oct 30 2021 - 06:00
‘My whirlwind romance has left me hurt and heartbroken’‘I keep thinking what’s wrong with me? Why doesn’t he want to be with me?’Sun Oct 24 2021 - 06:00
How do I start dating after a mental health break?You’re already ahead of the curve in how to make connections that feel healthy, authentic and fulfillingSat Oct 23 2021 - 06:00
I caught my daughter having sex with her pregnant sister’s boyfriendI’m in the middle of my two daughters and my husband – who is very upset at the situationSat Oct 16 2021 - 06:00
I’m a 20-year-old female virgin, struggling to make that first moveI feel nervous at the prospect of re-entering the dating world with a severe lack of experienceSat Oct 09 2021 - 00:00
My partner wants to open up our relationshipDear Roe: I don’t think I’m emotionally ready for us to start sleeping with other peopleSun Oct 03 2021 - 00:00
Should I tell my ex how much she hurt me?Ask Roe: I was ill and unable to be the person she needed – maybe that’s why she fell out of loveSat Sept 25 2021 - 06:00
Ask Roe: My ex is making me feel guilty for being on dating appsBoth of you need to stop monitoring each other’s social and dating activitiesSat Sept 18 2021 - 06:00
My boyfriend hides his genitals from me and I’m panickingAsk Roe: If you can’t accept your boyfriend’s boundaries around his body, you should not be with himSun Sept 12 2021 - 06:00
My boyfriend is perfect, but I have a crush on a co-workerAsk Roe: You can find someone else attractive while loving your boyfriendFri Sept 10 2021 - 23:54
I’m suspicious of my new boyfriend’s need for privacyAsk Roe: It is early in your relationship to expect full access to your new man’s complete social circleSun Sept 05 2021 - 00:00
‘My partner was raised in a religious family and won’t discuss sex’Ask Roe: Open communication is a necessary requirement for a healthy sex life and relationshipSun Aug 22 2021 - 06:00
My husband is cheating again and I don’t know what to doAsk Roe: I thought the life post-booze was a fresh start, but here we are againSun Aug 15 2021 - 06:00
‘My ex-boyfriend died and I’m struggling with my grief’Ask Roe: The loss of your ex is not the loss of your future, or your chance for love and romanceSat Aug 07 2021 - 06:00
My wife is bored in our relationship and I don't know what to doTalking about boredom in relationships can be an invitation to honesty and insightSat Jul 31 2021 - 06:00
I’m 30, have never dated anyone and am unsure of my sexualityAll the advice seems to be for people certain of their sexuality and who want to come outSat Jul 24 2021 - 06:00
‘The men I love always just want to be friends’Ask Roe: Don’t settle for men who want the ol’-buddy-ol’-pal version of youSat Jul 17 2021 - 06:00
‘My wife publicly mocks my erectile dysfunction and blames me for our dwindling sex life’Ask Roe: ‘I’m in my 50s and although I adore her I find my wife incredibly intimidating’Sat Jul 10 2021 - 06:00
Was I too hasty in leaving my uncertain boyfriend?Ask Roe: He said he needed time to think about how he was feeling and it floored meSat Jul 03 2021 - 06:00
‘My partner’s depression is affecting our sex life’I still want a sexual relationship and find him extremely attractiveSat Jun 26 2021 - 06:00
‘I am obsessed with my boyfriend’s ex. How can I move on?’Ask Roe: I know it is unhealthy to be preoccupied with their relationship but I feel irrationally jealousSun Jun 20 2021 - 06:00
‘My fiancée thinks I’ll change my mind about having kids, but I won’t’Ask Roe: ‘Other than the child issue our relationship is great’Sun Jun 13 2021 - 00:01
‘I called my boyfriend by my ex’s name during sex’Ask Roe: ‘I don’t feel anything towards my ex and want a future with my current boyfriend’Sat Jun 05 2021 - 17:00
'I can't get over my secret fling with my brother's friend'Ask Roe: ‘I don’t know why he automatically assumed it would end badly’Sun May 30 2021 - 06:00
I’ve met a good man so why am I drawn back to one who treats me terribly?Ask Roe: Will I ever be able to have a healthy relationship after all I’ve been through?Sun May 23 2021 - 06:00
'We're married with a toddler and Covid has destroyed our sex life'Ask Roe: 'Our finances have been a struggle and we’re both exhausted working from home'Sun May 16 2021 - 06:00
‘I had a break-up during the pandemic and don’t know how to process it’Ask Roe: I think Covid-19 was one of the causes of the break-up and I never got closureSun May 09 2021 - 06:00
‘I’m falling in love with my online language tutor’Ask Roe: ‘My tutor has such similar life experiences, taste in music and pop culture as I do and we can while away an hour just chatting’Mon May 03 2021 - 06:00
‘My girlfriend’s extreme mood swings are ruining our relationship’Ask Roe: The persistent sapping of my energy is getting under my skin; I’m walking on eggshellsSun Apr 25 2021 - 07:22
‘My ex-girlfriend is my one social contact and it’s getting unhealthy’Ask Roe: ‘I’m dependent on her for support and company and she’s aware of that’Sun Apr 18 2021 - 07:45
‘I’m cheating on my husband with a married man – can we ever trust each other?’Ask Roe: We are mad about each other and have talked about a future togetherSun Apr 11 2021 - 06:00
