‘Should I tell my wife that I’m a crossdresser after more than 20 years together?’
Ask Roe: ‘I’ve kept this secret for 40 years, and I’m pretty certain she would reject this side of me’
‘Menstrual health affects everything - our work, our relationships, our mental health. Yet it’s still whispered about’
Dr Hazel Wallace – aka The Food Medic – on leaving medicine, offering credible advice online, and her new book about periods
‘I said awful things about a friend while drunk – and I’m panicking that she might have overheard’
Ask Roe: ‘I have no idea why I said these things other than it being alcohol-fuelled bitchiness’
‘I have vaginismus and I’m afraid I’ll never find a man who doesn’t pressure me’
Ask Roe: Partners I attempted penetrative sex with in the past backed away once it became clear that sex was not straightforward
‘A passionate lover from 12 years ago has popped up on a dating app. Should I find out where I stand?’
Ask Roe: ‘He claims to be looking for a long-term commitment and I can’t stop thinking about him’
‘I got back with my partner after breaking up with him but I am still plagued by doubts’
Ask Roe: ‘Why do I feel unsure when he is such a good person?’
‘My ex blanks me at group events – and my family and friends make excuses for him’
Ask Roe: ‘By saying nothing my friends are validating his behaviour. I feel huge anger towards them’
‘I’m deeply unhappy but I think leaving my husband will destroy him’
Ask Roe: ‘I have gradually come to realise that I no longer love my husband, or even like him very much’
‘I caught my husband masturbating with a male friend but he says it’s nothing’
Ask Roe: ‘The next morning, he insisted the whole thing was not a big deal and lots of men do this’
‘My partner broke up with me to ‘find himself’ – but still texts me every day’
Ask Roe: A part of me still hopes he’ll realise he made a mistake and come back
‘How am I supposed to just move on when a financial betrayal shook my trust in my husband?’
Ask Roe: ‘I don’t want to be in a relationship where I’m walking on eggshells, afraid to talk about my own feelings’
‘I’m a woman in my early 30s, and I’m exhausted by dating’
Ask Roe: ‘I have high standards in the men I date but still end up hurt and alone... My friends keep telling me I need to stop being so picky’
I asked my husband for a divorce – everyone thinks I made a mistake. Did I?
Ask Roe: I fought for years to make it work, and I’ve nothing left. I’m just done
‘My wife won’t perform oral sex on me and I’m resentful’
Ask Roe: ‘My wife says I am never happy with sex’
My friend of 14 years has retreated from my life – should I keep chasing them?
Ask Roe: You’re obsessing over the ‘why’ of this situation ... But here’s the truth – your obsession with the why is an avoidance of what is