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Living with the grandparents: Tips for peace and harmony in multigenerational homes

Sort It: Multigenerational living is becoming more common, but privacy and comfort for all are essential to make it work

'Multiple reception areas are a great way to create separate spaces for reading, listening to music, watching television, or entertaining guests.' Design by Optimise Design
'Multiple reception areas are a great way to create separate spaces for reading, listening to music, watching television, or entertaining guests.' Design by Optimise Design

Multigenerational living is on the rise worldwide as housing costs soar and populations age. Ireland is no exception, with families having to find new ways to share their homes, resources and care responsibilities. Whether you’re sharing to save money or support family members, it requires careful planning and a well-designed home that caters to everyone’s needs. Here are some tips for creating a functional, harmonious living arrangement that ensures privacy and comfort for all generations.

Help to buy

Buying a home in Ireland can feel like an insurmountable challenge for many young people. With high rents consuming a significant portion of income, high property prices, a lack of affordable housing and stricter lending criteria, it’s no surprise that the average age of Ireland’s first-time buyer has risen to 36, according to the latest data from the Central Statistics Office.

Living with parents or an older family member may be the only option for some young people to save for their first home. If space and finances allow, creating a separate dwelling, such as a granny flat or an annex within the same property, is an optimal option, allowing everyone to have their own privacy.

Despite more people opting for this living arrangement, only 17 per cent of those surveyed said their current home would be suitable

Benefits

Although not an ideal arrangement for younger people eager to buy their own home, there are some benefits to multigenerational living. For grandparents, it can be an opportunity to be more involved in the lives of their grandchildren and help their children with household responsibilities, if they are so inclined.

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For adult children, multigenerational living can provide a way to care for their ageing parents while reducing financial burdens. They may feel comforted by having their parents nearby and well cared for.

Children in multigenerational households also benefit greatly. They can develop closer relationships with their grandparents and learn valuable life lessons from them. Having more family members around can also provide stability and support.

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Suitability

According to research conducted by Bank of Ireland, 40 per cent of Irish adults believe multigenerational living will become more common in the future. However, despite more people opting for this living arrangement, only 17 per cent of those surveyed said their current home would be suitable.

Not every home is ideal for multigenerational living. Suitability largely depends on the size and versatility of the property. When searching for a new home or planning to convert an existing one, finding the right size of property is crucial. You need enough space to meet the privacy needs of each generation while still having enough communal areas to enjoy each other’s company.

When looking for a home, consider factors such as separate living spaces, accessibility and safety features to ensure it can accommodate everyone’s needs.

Extend

Adapting your home to accommodate different generations can be challenging but, done correctly, can be incredibly rewarding.

Creating private or semi-private spaces is the key to success, as it allows everyone to live together without feeling like they are constantly in each other’s way.

Attic conversions are a popular way to add extra living space to your home, particularly for families with grown-up children who may need their own space. This type of conversion can provide an additional bedroom or living area. However, it’s essential to consider the structural requirements and ensure the space meets the necessary building regulations for safety and comfort.

By treating bedrooms more like hotel rooms, with their own seating areas, televisions and small desks, they can become more of a living space than just a bedroom, making them ideal for personal retreats

Building a basement can provide additional living space and be an excellent option for multigenerational living. This type of conversion is common in many other countries but less so in Ireland. A basement can be used as an additional living area, extra bedrooms or even as an office.

Ground-floor extensions or garage conversions are also popular ways to create more living space. They are excellent options for families with young children who need more space or for those caring for ageing parents who may need a ground-floor bedroom. When planning an extension, it’s important to consider the local planning regulations and the cost and practicalities of the project.

Reconfigure

'Treat bedrooms more like hotel rooms, with their own seating areas, televisions and small desks.' Design by Optimise Design. Photograph: Ruth Maria Murphy
'Treat bedrooms more like hotel rooms, with their own seating areas, televisions and small desks.' Design by Optimise Design. Photograph: Ruth Maria Murphy

If you don’t have space to extend, there are still ways to make the most of your space. One option is to create distinct spaces for each person in the house to accommodate the different generations’ varying needs and routines. Multiple rooms with en suite bathrooms, wardrobes and small living spaces are ideal. By treating bedrooms more like hotel rooms, with their own seating areas, televisions and small desks, they can become more of a living space than just a bedroom, making them ideal for personal retreats. Incorporating features such as a small kitchen area or tea and coffee making facilities into new bedrooms can also add a sense of comfort and take pressure off the main kitchen.

Multiple reception areas are a great way to create separate spaces for reading, listening to music, watching television or entertaining guests. Pocket doors are another great idea as they allow areas to be sectioned off or opened up, depending on who uses the space, which can be especially helpful in open-plan spaces.

Storage

Finally, a successful multigenerational home comes down to good storage solutions that work for every family member. Built-in furniture and storage can maximise space even in the smallest rooms. With the right design and planning, multigenerational living can provide a harmonious and happy home for families of all sizes and generations, regardless of whether you have space to extend or not.