Japanese princess Mako has quietly married a so-called commoner without traditional wedding celebrations and said their marriage – delayed three years and opposed by some – “was a necessary choice to live while cherishing our hearts”.
The marriage to Kei Komuro has cost Mako her royal status. She received her husband’s surname – the first time she has had a family name.
Most Japanese women must abandon their own family names upon marriage due to a law requiring only one surname per married couple.
The couple’s marriage document was submitted by a palace official on Tuesday morning and made official, Japan's Imperial Household Agency said.
There was no wedding banquet or other marriage rituals for the couple. The agency has acknowledged that many people have not welcomed their marriage.
“For me, Kei-san is a priceless person. For us, our marriage was a necessary choice to live while cherishing our hearts,” Mako said in a televised news conference, using an honorific in speaking of her husband.
Mr Komuro responded: “I love Mako. I live only once and I want to spend it with someone I love.”
He said he hopes to be with Mako to share feelings and encourage each other in happy times and difficult times.
“I hope to have a warm family with Mako-san, and I will continue to do everything to support her,” he said.
Status
Mako’s loss of royal status comes from the Imperial House Law, which allows only male succession.
Only male royals have household names, while female imperial family members have only titles and must leave if they marry commoners.
The male-only succession practice leaves only Prince Akishino (Mako’s father) and his son, Prince Hisahito, in line to succeed the Japanese emperor, Naruhito.
A panel of government-appointed experts is discussing a more stable succession system, but conservatives still reject female succession and allowing women to head the imperial family.
Mako earlier declined a 140 million yen (€1.1 million) payment to which she was entitled for leaving the imperial family, palace officials said. She is the first imperial family member since the second World War not to receive the payment, and chose to do so because of criticism of the marriage.
Mako, who turned 30 three days before the marriage, is a niece of Emperor Naruhito.
She and Mr Komuro, who were classmates at Tokyo’s International Christian University, announced in September 2017 that they intended to marry the following year, but a financial dispute involving his mother surfaced two months later and the wedding was suspended.
Negative coverage
Mako is recovering from what palace doctors described earlier this month as a form of traumatic stress disorder that she developed after seeing negative media coverage about their marriage, especially attacks on Mr Komuro.
“We have been horrified, scared and saddened... as false information has been taken as fact and that unfounded stories have spread,” Mako said in a written answer to a question from the press.
Mr Komuro (30) left for New York in 2018 to study law and only returned to Japan last month.
The couple will move to New York together. Many in Tokyo wished them good luck.
“Congratulations,” said office worker Yasuhiro Suzuki. “I hope people in America will welcome them.”
Retiree Kenko Suzuki said he expects life in New York will be challenging because they will have to live without people taking care of them. “So I’m rooting for them,” he said.
“There will be different kinds of difficulties as we start our new life, but we’ll walk together as we have done so in the past,” Mako said, thanking everyone who supported them.
Mako, apparently referring to mental health issues, noted “many people have difficulty and hurt feelings while trying to protect their hearts”.
She said: “I sincerely hope that our society will be a place where more people can live and protect their hearts with the help of warm help and support from others.” – PA