Bad therapy: ‘After some of our sessions I couldn’t go into work the next day’
Making the decision to go to therapy is a huge exercise of trust, but what can you do if that trust is misplaced?
Making the decision to go to therapy is a huge exercise of trust, but what can you do if that trust is misplaced?
A strong relationship between a therapist and their client is key in determining the effectiveness of therapy, says Dr Damien Lowry
Ask the Expert: Taking time to consider whether your child may be autistic might yield a better understanding of their needs. Also, there is a growing positive identity around being autistic
As the days become shorter and the weather grows colder, it’s common to start feeling low, but there are plenty of ways to brighten up your winter
The waiting game won’t last forever. The time will pass and you will soon have answers
Do you have an aggressive internal voice that keeps putting you down? There are ways to shut it out and replace it with a kinder voice
Excess orientation around achievement can have a down side
We can put huge pressure on ourselves, robbing us of precious downtime joy
Men’s Health Week: A watersports coach who battled an eating disorder believes in talk therapy and in redefining expectations of men
In a toxic workplace, results are rewarded, no matter how they are achieved
Avoid comparisons to idealised other couples, appreciate good intentions and adapt to change
Jen Hogan: I obsess about wanting my kids to be happy and content
Padraig O’Morain distils ideas from his new book and shows how acceptance of change is something that evolves
Julian Baggini has written an excellent guide to reasoning better as an ethical imperative
Keep a notepad by your bed and get into the habit of writing down your dreams
The secret to interpersonal harmony is listening, being content not to win all the time and focusing clearly on solutions
The therapy room is not always a safe haven, especially when it echoes the unconscious biases of our society
Don’t focus on the loss but on the gain, such as better health, a clearer head, the financial rewards or more time to read books or pursue a hobby.
We are dealing with war, rampant inflation and climate crisis – yet some of us feel bad because we have not performed perfectly. Are we mad?
Padraig O’Morain: Abuse has no age limits
Pet owners who stage funerals can be the target of mockery, but ceremony can help
Padraig O’Morain: Image of summer as season of happiness and bliss doesn’t hold true
There is great power in apologising – but only if it is done correctly
Padraig O’Morain: Healing depends on people knowing their feelings accepted as genuine
Acknowledge and express your emotions instead of pushing them away
The prospect of a return to ‘normality’ is growing dimmer by the day
In about half of people, mental illnesses arise before age 18 - add climate change fears and the outlook is grim
Willingness of women to speak out about their fears is a crucial step toward change
Goal of not losing the fitness you have might be more achievable than becoming superfit
Mental health professionals say many of us are hurting badly from the Covid-19 pandemic
We celebrate weight loss, and our basic attitude towards being overweight is disapproval
It’s what you say to yourself about yourself that counts most in building up that idea of who you are
Euphoric recall tricks us, we also have plenty of good times without alcohol
Being alert to real dangers is wise. But that doesn’t mean catastrophic thinking
So many of us fail to draw a distinction between making a mistake and being a mistake
If handled sensitively, seeing your family virtually could be a warm moment
Padraig O’Morain: Why we condemn in others faults we are ashamed of in ourselves
Economic realities may push refuseniks back to the office but attitudes are changing
Slapping the ‘alcoholic’ label on someone can do more harm than good
Current generation have already suffered enormous disruption during a very formative period in their lives
Living while longing: for a loved one, a job, a home, the life you had before Covid
Start-up Fettle secures backing of a number of leading entrepreneurs in pre-seed round
The pandemic world poked holes in the confidence and positivity of our students
Quiet people rest assured, brilliant conversationalists are a pain in the neck
It’s natural to wonder how you will re-establish yourself when back in the office
If you never felt down you would be completely out of touch with reality
Acceptance can allow you to enjoy fulfilling activities or good relationships once again
Mega-productive people usually have teams running around for them
Emotional forgiveness can help leave upsetting events behind and enable understanding
Tell Me About It: ‘My husband is angry with me, as he believes I have not thought this through’
Longer prison sentences and adequately financed treatment services needed
Dear Trish: ‘I would describe myself as the embodiment of Walter Mitty and Walter White’
Getting cut from the herd never feels good and spells danger, it’s how bullying works
I used to forget about reality in the illusory distractions of streets, theatres, cinemas
Crosswords & puzzles to keep you challenged and entertained
Inquests into the nightclub fire that led to the deaths of 48 people
How does a post-Brexit world shape the identity and relationship of these islands
Weddings, Births, Deaths and other family notices