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Tell Me About It: Dad is giving my inheritance to charity

Tell Me About It: Dad is giving my inheritance to charity

It is not really about the money, but a gesture of care from him would have been nice

Wed Jun 22 2016 - 08:00
Tell Me About It: A health problem has derailed my life

Tell Me About It: A health problem has derailed my life

A lawyer is trying to get compensation for me and I have expert reports that point to malpractice

Wed Jun 15 2016 - 06:00
My husband cannot accept that our son would rather be a girl

My husband cannot accept that our son would rather be a girl

My husband thinks it is all nonsense and a fad

Wed Jun 08 2016 - 01:00
My wife has dementia and my kids think I am being unfaithful

My wife has dementia and my kids think I am being unfaithful

I feel let down by my family’s behaviour and sordid thoughts

Wed Jun 01 2016 - 01:00
My partner wants us to split, and I blame her new friends

My partner wants us to split, and I blame her new friends

These two female friends have developed a reputation in the area and on social media for outrageous behaviour

Wed May 25 2016 - 01:00
Tell Me About It: I feel only half alive  since my daughter moved to Australia

Tell Me About It: I feel only half alive since my daughter moved to Australia

My biggest worry is that she will like it so much there that she won’t come back

Wed May 18 2016 - 01:00
My eldest daughter is leading her younger siblings astray

My eldest daughter is leading her younger siblings astray

They have no problem using the foulest of language during yelling matches

Wed May 11 2016 - 01:00
I have been seeing a married man and it is driving me crazy

I have been seeing a married man and it is driving me crazy

I haven’t even told my family as I know they would disapprove

Wed May 04 2016 - 01:00
Tell Me About It: I’m jealous of my mum’s connection with the son she put up for adoption

Tell Me About It: I’m jealous of my mum’s connection with the son she put up for adoption

My mother is delighted to have him in her life, but I can’t bring myself to meet him

Wed Apr 27 2016 - 01:00
My dad just uses me as a free babysitter

My dad just uses me as a free babysitter

I don’t mind looking after my sister sometimes, but I feel like I’m being taken advantage of

Wed Apr 20 2016 - 01:00
A neighbour my husband is friends with is invading our space

A neighbour my husband is friends with is invading our space

I’m at my wits’ end. I have made it clear to my husband on a number of occasions that we need more privacy

Wed Apr 13 2016 - 06:00
I feel alienated by my friends’ drug-fuelled social life

I feel alienated by my friends’ drug-fuelled social life

They don’t peer-pressure me or anything like that, but I feel isolated all the same

Wed Apr 06 2016 - 07:00
I came home to find my school-going daughter in bed with a guy

I came home to find my school-going daughter in bed with a guy

I am really upset that she did not wait until she was older to have sex

Wed Mar 30 2016 - 06:00
I am twentysomething and I have never been kissed

I am twentysomething and I have never been kissed

I think I’m bisexual, but the thought of kissing either sex instils a desire as well as fear

Wed Mar 23 2016 - 03:00
My history of bad relationships has made me suspicious

My history of bad relationships has made me suspicious

I constantly think my wonderful partner is looking at other women when we are out together

Wed Mar 16 2016 - 06:00
I think my daughter’s boyfriend is gay

I think my daughter’s boyfriend is gay

I cannot afford to lose my daughter by making her feel I am interfering

Wed Mar 09 2016 - 06:00
I’m worried my parents might have a drink problem

I’m worried my parents might have a drink problem

They have what they call ‘cocktail hour’ at 5pm and then it just keeps going

Wed Mar 02 2016 - 01:00
Tell Me About It: I think my mother might have joined a cult

Tell Me About It: I think my mother might have joined a cult

I don’t know if I should dig deeper or just hope that it burns out

Wed Feb 24 2016 - 01:00
I cannot decide between two women

I cannot decide between two women

I used to judge this kind of person but now I have become one

Wed Feb 17 2016 - 06:00
My friends have become so self-involved since they had children

My friends have become so self-involved since they had children

FRIENDSHIP WEEK: I don’t mind seeing the children sometimes, but not all of the time

Wed Feb 10 2016 - 06:00
Tell Me About It: My adult children are poisoning relationships in the family

Tell Me About It: My adult children are poisoning relationships in the family

The youngest sibling is getting married and wants all of us there

Wed Jan 27 2016 - 06:00
Tell Me About It: I slept with a guy I thought was single. Now I feel I’m keeping his dirty secret

Tell Me About It: I slept with a guy I thought was single. Now I feel I’m keeping his dirty secret

Should I make him tell her, should I tell her, or should I say nothing?

Wed Jan 20 2016 - 06:00
Tell Me About It: I should be grateful  for having a good job but I feel sick inside

Tell Me About It: I should be grateful for having a good job but I feel sick inside

I know my friends are bored of me going on about my job but I can’t stop thinking about it

Wed Jan 13 2016 - 06:00
I am sick of my separated parents using the holiday to score points

I am sick of my separated parents using the holiday to score points

Tell Me About It: I feel like I will explode. I worry about my brother too

Wed Dec 30 2015 - 06:00
Tell Me About It: My family make me  feel like Scrooge even though we’re struggling

Tell Me About It: My family make me feel like Scrooge even though we’re struggling

I don’t want to be the person to dash hopes but someone has to be realistic

Wed Dec 23 2015 - 06:00
Tell Me About It: I’m in love with an older, married woman but we have different needs

Tell Me About It: I’m in love with an older, married woman but we have different needs

We have fallen head over heels for each other but I have so much to do in my life before I want to settle down

Wed Dec 16 2015 - 06:00
Tell Me About It: My father disapproves of my gay wedding

Tell Me About It: My father disapproves of my gay wedding

It has come to light that he will not attend, and I am very disappointed

Wed Dec 09 2015 - 01:00
Tell Me About It: My husband has had several affairs but I’d be destitute if I left

Tell Me About It: My husband has had several affairs but I’d be destitute if I left

Since my husband found out that I have met someone else, he has made life hell for me at home

Wed Dec 02 2015 - 01:00
Tell Me About It: My life is slipping  away from me due to my porn habit

Tell Me About It: My life is slipping away from me due to my porn habit

I’ve never had sex and my experiences so far have been disastrous

Wed Nov 25 2015 - 06:00
Tell Me About It: I live in a constant state of panic and fear

Tell Me About It: I live in a constant state of panic and fear

I lie awake at night for hours fretting over the day ahead. What can I do to regain control of my life?

Wed Nov 18 2015 - 06:00
Tell Me About It: My fear of rejection is  making a relationship impossible

Tell Me About It: My fear of rejection is making a relationship impossible

I lost my parents as a child, and my first relationships with women ended with me being left

Wed Nov 11 2015 - 06:00
My daughter is selfish and insufferable

My daughter is selfish and insufferable

Tell Me About It: Her recent behaviour – ignorant, emotionally lazy, lying at the drop of a hat, disrespectful – has left me reeling

Wed Nov 04 2015 - 06:00
I left my wife for another woman but it might have been a mistake

I left my wife for another woman but it might have been a mistake

I’m between a rock and a hard place and I know I have to make up my mind soon

Wed Oct 28 2015 - 06:00
Tell Me About It: I feel as if an old friend is taking advantage of me

Tell Me About It: I feel as if an old friend is taking advantage of me

I can either leave a friendship that has given me much, or I can continue in a one-sided relationship that costs me a lot

Wed Oct 21 2015 - 06:00
Tell Me About It: My son’s falling-out  with his best buddy has spread to us parents

Tell Me About It: My son’s falling-out with his best buddy has spread to us parents

I feel so much anger about being thrown into this situation, which I didn’t make happen

Wed Oct 14 2015 - 06:00
Tell Me About It: The abuse I suffered as a child is inhibiting my love life

Tell Me About It: The abuse I suffered as a child is inhibiting my love life

I don’t want to be defined by the incest I survived. But as I approach 40, I have bouts of despair

Wed Oct 07 2015 - 06:00
Tell Me About It: We are heartbroken that we cannot have children

Tell Me About It: We are heartbroken that we cannot have children

My husband and I are finding it extremely difficult to accept that we will never be parents

Wed Sept 23 2015 - 06:00
Tell Me About It: I got my top course, but I’m daunted about starting college

Tell Me About It: I got my top course, but I’m daunted about starting college

I feel as if I am in some sort of no-man’s land between secondary school and college

Wed Sept 16 2015 - 06:00
Tell Me About It: I have felt so alone since I separated from my husband

Tell Me About It: I have felt so alone since I separated from my husband

Everyone thinks I am flying, but I’m not. Living alone is hard

Wed Sept 09 2015 - 10:03
Tell Me About It: I feel like I am just a provider of money to my family

Tell Me About It: I feel like I am just a provider of money to my family

This is not my idea of how a father should be treated

Wed Sept 02 2015 - 06:00
Tell Me About It: I’m furious they voted against same-sex marriage

Tell Me About It: I’m furious they voted against same-sex marriage

I wrote to all my family asking them to support the Yes side. No one replied

Wed Aug 26 2015 - 05:00
I’ve fallen for a girl but I’m afraid she is leading me on

I’ve fallen for a girl but I’m afraid she is leading me on

Tell Me About It: I can’t help but feel that this is some sort of game for her

Wed Aug 19 2015 - 06:00
Tell Me About It: My promotion has caused a rift with my unemployed best friend

Tell Me About It: My promotion has caused a rift with my unemployed best friend

His financial successes or failings do not matter to me. I wish we could be as close as we were before

Wed Aug 12 2015 - 06:00
My desire to become a mother trumps love of my husband

My desire to become a mother trumps love of my husband

Tell Me About It: If you need advice or if you have some for the person with this problem email tellmeaboutit@irishtimes.com

Wed Aug 05 2015 - 06:00
Tell Me About It: My boyfriend is stopping me from seeing a male friend

Tell Me About It: My boyfriend is stopping me from seeing a male friend

It doesn’t seem to matter how much I stress to my boyfriend that it is platonic

Wed Jul 29 2015 - 06:00
My daughter is a compulsive liar and she is getting worse

My daughter is a compulsive liar and she is getting worse

Tell Me About It: If you need advice or if you have some for the person with this problem email tellmeaboutit@irishtimes.com

Wed Jul 22 2015 - 06:00
Tell Me About It: I’m a 23-year-old man and my virginity is a burden

Tell Me About It: I’m a 23-year-old man and my virginity is a burden

I want to meet the right person but I am so afraid of telling anyone I get intimate with about my lack of experience

Wed Jul 15 2015 - 06:00
Tell Me About It: My partner plays me like an emotional accordion

Tell Me About It: My partner plays me like an emotional accordion

One day he tells me he can’t wait to see me, another that I’m a boring person

Wed Jul 08 2015 - 06:00
Tell Me About It: Worrying about my ADHD son is burning me out

Tell Me About It: Worrying about my ADHD son is burning me out

He has dropped out of education and has lost his confidence, and I’m running out of energy

Wed Jul 01 2015 - 06:00
Sex survey puts paid to the myths and shows the reality

Sex survey puts paid to the myths and shows the reality

What is ‘average’? When it comes to sex, it’s comforting to know we are not as strange or weird as we might think

Tue Jun 30 2015 - 01:03
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