My long-term boyfriend doesn’t want children but I’m realising I do – what now?Ask Roe: My feelings have changed and I cannot imagine a future without marriage and kidsSun Jun 04 2023 - 05:00
My ex made me feel bad about my weight gain – do I need a ‘revenge body’ to date again?Ask Roe: I want to get back out there but feel self-conscious. Is it better to wait until I lose weight?Sun May 28 2023 - 05:00
My boyfriend keeps talking to women on apps but tells me it’s harmlessAsk Roe: He keeps saying I’m over-reacting and that what he’s doing isn’t cheatingSun May 21 2023 - 05:00
My partner and I want very different things in life. I think I’ve made a huge mistakeAsk Roe: I’ve just bought a house with my partner but my ex says she loves me and I can’t stop thinking about herSun May 14 2023 - 05:00
Is it okay to remain faithful to my dead wife? I can’t imagine a life with anyone elseAsk Roe: I loved every part of that woman from the moment I met her. The issue is that I still doSun May 07 2023 - 05:00
I’m dating a guy who has called things off twice, but I keep going back for more Ask Roe: I’m dating a guy who has called things off twice, but I keep going back for more. Is this a hopeless case?Sun Apr 30 2023 - 05:00
My marriage looks great from the outside – but all I want is to leaveAsk Roe: You need to start trusting yourself, and giving yourself permission to do what you want and need to do with your one and only lifeSun Apr 23 2023 - 05:00
‘I’ve been with my girlfriend for a year but can’t stop thinking about my ex’Ask Roe: I still find myself looking at her from the corner of my eye or trying to act cool when she’s aroundSun Apr 16 2023 - 05:00
My boyfriend wants much more sex than I do. Can we make it work?Ask Roe: What you are experiencing is a very common pattern in relationships where one person has a higher libido than the other, and there are ways to navigate thatSun Apr 09 2023 - 05:00
‘I love my husband but sex with my ex seemed more fulfilling, almost primal’Ask Roe: ‘I don’t ever want to act on these thoughts but I feel like I am betraying my husband’Sun Apr 02 2023 - 05:00
‘I’ve started experimenting with BDSM but feel sad afterwards – should I stop?’Ask Roe: BDSM is often deeply misunderstood in pop culture as being deviant, when actually it’s very commonSun Mar 26 2023 - 05:00
‘My sister won’t leave her bad relationship - and I’m pretty sure she’s having an affair’Ask Roe: On top of that I am pretty sure she is having an affair with married man with three young childrenSun Mar 19 2023 - 05:00
‘My boyfriend says he doesn’t love me – should I leave or wait?’Ask Roe: This is a stealthy form of self-sabotage – telling ourselves we are committed to love but only committing to people who will never force us to experience being loved fullySun Mar 12 2023 - 05:00
My best friend is in love with me and I don’t know what to doAsk Roe: I don’t want to lose our friendship, but I don’t know if it can continue if he has such strong feelingsSun Mar 05 2023 - 05:00
My boyfriend gets angry when I don’t have sex with himAsk Roe: We have it at least three times a week, but he has a very high sex drive meaning he wants it dailySun Feb 26 2023 - 05:00
I think my husband is attracted to a friend and I’m at breaking pointAsk Roe: How can I confront him without appearing like a nagging wife?Sun Feb 19 2023 - 05:00
I love my girlfriend’s weight gain but she doesn’t – how can I boost her confidence?Ask Roe: I find curvy women attractive, but her lack of confidence is affecting my desire for herSun Feb 12 2023 - 05:00
The romance reboot: How to refresh your relationship and sex lifeWhether you’re single or in a long-term relationship, Valentine’s Day is an opportunity to recalibrateSat Feb 11 2023 - 06:00
My fiance has a history of cheating – can I trust him?Ask Roe: He says he would never cheat on me because I’m ‘the one’ but I hate cheating and I don’t know what to thinkSun Feb 05 2023 - 05:00
How to create rituals that add meaning to our lives Rituals are incredibly important to human beings, psychologically, emotionally and spirituallySat Feb 04 2023 - 05:00
‘I can’t stop obsessing about my boyfriend’s beautiful, glamorous ex’Ask Roe: ‘She is model-beautiful with my dream body, and I’ve even started thinking about them in bed together’Sun Jan 29 2023 - 05:00
How to have great sex during the menopause and beyondIt can affect your libido, but menopause doesn’t have to mark the end of a satisfying sex lifeSat Jan 28 2023 - 05:00
‘I’ve just been dumped for being too needy - why does this keep happening?’Ask Roe: I don’t know what’s wrong with me and why I keep embarrassing myself by falling for these guysSun Jan 22 2023 - 05:00
I’m falling for a man, but he’s still living with his ex-wifeAsk Roe: He can’t tell me when he will be moving and I feel like I’m waiting for us to properly start our relationshipSun Jan 15 2023 - 05:00
My ex has been waiting for me for two years – do I go back to him or let him go?Ask Roe: I feel if I don’t give him another chance I’ll always wonder ‘what if’, but I don’t want to waste more timeSun Jan 08 2023 - 05:00
A woman is making me miserable, and I need to cut her offAsk Roe: I’ve excused her behaviour as she had a bereavement, but I don’t think she realises how belittling and stressful she is beingSun Jan 01 2023 - 05:00
‘My neighbours’ loud sex sessions go from operatic to horror-movie screaming’Ask Roe: Our sex and relationships expert answers six of your questions in a Christmas quick-fire columnMon Dec 26 2022 - 05:00
The guy I like is playing games and I never seem to winAsk Roe: This is one of the biggest problems with modern dating – you’re treating it as a competitionSun Dec 18 2022 - 05:00
‘I’ve reconnected with an old friend and can’t help but feel a spark of attraction I haven’t felt towards men before’Ask Roe: I’m curious about exploring this aspect of my sexuality, but equally nervousSun Dec 11 2022 - 05:30
I had an affair with a younger colleague and now he’s pursuing another womanAsk Roe: I fell in love with him, but he made it clear he didn’t want to be a coupleSun Dec 04 2022 - 05:00
‘The man I was in a situationship with is dating someone new and I can’t get over it’Ask Roe: From social media, it looks like they are happy, but I’m in denial. How can I move on?Sun Nov 27 2022 - 05:00
‘My husband of 30 years is secretly viewing sex shows and using sex chat lines’Ask Roe: ‘I have also discovered he has taken intimate photos of himself and deleted them’Sun Nov 20 2022 - 05:00
My Covid hobby has become a successful new career – and my husband resents itAsk Roe: He’s making comments about my ‘attitude’ and we’ve stopped having sex. What’s happening?Sun Nov 13 2022 - 05:00
‘I like a woman but don’t know whether to follow my head, or my gut’Ask Roe: My gut feeling is that we won’t have a deep connection, but she has some lovely qualitiesSun Nov 06 2022 - 05:00
‘My ex was on dating apps while in a relationship with me – will this keep happening?’Ask Roe: Are we living in a world where people are constantly asking themselves ‘Could I be happier?’Sun Oct 30 2022 - 05:00
‘Four years on from a tough break-up, I still think about my ex every day’Ask Roe: She has made her decision and you need to respect that and not contact herSun Oct 23 2022 - 05:00
My partner is loving, caring and committed to our future together — but he doesn’t want to get married. I do.Ask Roe: I don’t know how to talk about this without sounding like a stereotype of a woman or like I’m issuing an ultimatumSun Oct 16 2022 - 05:00
‘I have feelings for my friend but don’t want to tell him. I don’t want to be the reason his relationship fails’Ask Roe: You need to look at the difference between a person who makes you feel safe, and a person you’re using as a safety netSun Oct 09 2022 - 06:00
‘I’m tired of faking orgasms and having rows about our sex life’Ask Roe: You are doing too much work in the bedroom and outside it. This isn’t what a relationship of equals looks likeSun Oct 02 2022 - 06:00
Twenty ways to make your relationship more lasting, loving and lustfulDon’t lose hope when things get difficult. There is a lot we can do to keep love aliveSat Oct 01 2022 - 05:30
‘I’m too infatuated with my new girlfriend to use basic social skills’Ask Roe: ‘I have a history of negative mental health, which often results in me feeling extreme highs and lows’Sun Sept 25 2022 - 05:00
‘My new girlfriend still sleeps in the same bed as her ex’Ask Roe: I thought her ex had moved out, but discovered they are still living together and text every daySun Sept 18 2022 - 05:00
I’m sleeping with a man who has a girlfriend. I feel guilty but can’t walk awayAsk Roe: I’ve developed feelings for him, though he says he will never fall in love with meSun Sept 11 2022 - 05:00
I’ve been with my partner exclusively for 18 years, but he’s been in an open relationshipAsk Roe: ‘I’m just an average guy: I can’t compete with the fresh material readily available on dating apps’Sun Sept 04 2022 - 05:15
My partner and I disagree about whether to have children — do we need to break up immediately?Ask Roe: We both want to be together in the long term, but fear that one of us will end up resenting the otherSun Aug 28 2022 - 05:00
My husband wants to have sex for at least an hour every time - it’s putting me offAsk Roe: Since we had our first baby we are barely having sex. I just don’t have the energySun Aug 21 2022 - 05:00
‘I’m easy-going, intelligent and apparently good looking – so why am I single?’Ask Roe: I look at my friends and I see the wonderful people they are with, and I think, ‘Why can’t I have that?’Sun Aug 14 2022 - 05:00
‘It’s not even about sex – I miss the intimacy of sleeping next to my boyfriend now that we’re in separate rooms’Ask Roe: Sleep isn’t the only issue here. There has clearly been a breakdown in open and empathetic communicationSun Aug 07 2022 - 05:00
‘How do I convince my on-again off-again boyfriend to commit?’Ask Roe: I love him but I’m exhausted by the drama and want to just enjoy our relationshipSun Jul 31 2022 - 05:00
‘I’ve met a man I like a lot, but I am starting to worry I slept with him too soon’ Ask Roe: We’re getting on well, but he isn’t texting me apart from to arrange to meet againSun Jul 24 2022 - 06:00
